WTF is Westholme?

I had prepared to post about something I’m sure very important today, but then I realize that there was something far more important to discuss. Like, for example… um, what’s Westholme and why are you running it?

Westholme is, specifically, a street here in Los Angeles that Morello and I drive past pretty regularly. The first time we saw it, we laughed about how it sounded like a horrible zone in World of Warcraft. You know the one… you do it because it’s great XP and there’s no other zone that’s going to get you the same gains. You could run 5 mans, maybe, if you had the heirlooms, but really, you’re probably not going to get what you need. So you run Westholme. You just gotta get it done.

What we realized later is that Westholme is a metaphor for life. You can opt out of it (ask hikikomori!) but if you’re going to progress, you got to run Westholme. Westholme isn’t necessarily fun, it’s not exciting, but you can make it that way depending on the choices you make (including making the choice to have fun doing it!) and who you run it with.

So, as we wind down for the holidays, I hope you get to spend some QT with your favorite folks, maybe save up some heals and potions for a later date or get some leveling in. We’ll still be posting over the month, so follow us on FB, Twitter or Twitch!

Just elfin do it.

I was talking to a buddy of mine (who happens to be a totally rad SF&F author) the other day about dogs. He was talking about how in the future, he wanted a couple himself, a shiba inu and a corgi. I happen to have two corgis who are the best dogs in the world. Sorry everyone else! My dogs? Best dogs.

But back on topic… I told him, “if there’s no really bad reason to not get the dog now or soonish, get the dog now or soonish. Dogs are like kids. There will never be a good time, just better times!” BTW, I actually believe this when I say it. Just do it, right?

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As to Your Qs: Are DoTs always a bad thing?


there’s some swearing in this one. If you didn’t know that, -50 DKP!!

In games, you do not want DoTs. You want to stop DoTs. But IRL DoTs aren’t quite so cut and dry.

IRL DoTs take a number of forms. Some are temporary, some are daily. Some are very strong, others are weak. Some examples of DoTs are:

  • illness or injury
  • stress
  • kids
  • eating poorly
  • pets
  • a job
  • school

and on and on… but I think you get the drift. It’s anything that takes your HP over time. Some of those are generally regarded as good (a job, school, kids, etc.) while others are not so good (illness, stress, etc.) So, already, the answer to this question is No. DoTs aren’t always a bad thing.

In fact, the more positive DoTs are often what create goodness in your life. As with everything, it’s a balance. Ask yourself: What are you getting out of this DoT? How is it serving you or serving others important to you? Does it bring you closer to a goal or something you want? Now compare that to what you lose. Do you get more good out of it? Then let it ride. If not, get rid of it and replace it with a positive DoT or HoT. Sometimes just replacing it with a positive thought around the DoT is enough (for example: “Clearly, this injury tells me I’m not high enough level. I should slow down and learn from it!”)

Please let us know what you think. Leave a comment below with your favorite DoT from your own life. Mine’s definitely the dogs. I know pets seems like an odd one, but I spend a lot of HP making sure they do well (training, long walks, etc.) but the heals I get from the snuggles and kisses make it totally worth.

Also, if you have any questions you’d like us to answer in a future post, let us know that too! You can comment here or use the contact form. We’ll probably feature in in a future post!

Why You Need A Good Guild, Part One of …

Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them.

W. Clement Stone

World of Warcraft Guild by GENZOMAN

There will probably be a ton of these posts, because as science and just common sense shows, hanging with a good group of people on a regular basis makes your life easier and better.

This post in particular was inspired by a friend of mine! My buddy Kirk brought up a really solid point recently. He said:

Some of the greatest achievements can’t be accomplished alone, and the truly great achievements can only be accomplished with those you’ve found along the way and can trust and depend on, who complements your unique set of gear and abilities with their unique set of gear and abilities.

Loved this because he’s absolutely right, esp. for higher level stuff. Think about queuing in the dungeon finder: you need a tank, a healer and some DPS. Without those three different roles present, things may not go well (unless you’re super OP for fights!) Same deal with some of the rarer achievements. You need your group, your comrades, your guildies.

When you’re too low level, say as a kid, you generally have your family there backing you up. They’re your guild. You can get stuff done because they have your back, making sure you’ve got your needs met, getting your butt to school on time, etc. You get through your achieves in your early life because someone else is making sure you’re not scrapping for food.

As you grow up, that first guild usually becomes less important. Not unimportant, but when you start taking care of yourself, their help becomes less critical. You’ve leveled up to the point where you don’t need someone else making you food and potions, you’re doing that on your own. In addition, your first guild may not understand you or share goals with you. As your birth family guild becomes less important, often a new family becomes more important, the family of your choosing. These people become your new guild.

But a whole guild with all mages isn’t going to do so well. You’re going to have to pug your tanks and healers (and we all know how well that goes) or have to do some insane, inefficient mage healing. On top of that, too often, too many people of the exact same type create an echo chamber. If you’re all loving the exact same things, doing things the exact same way, etc. that becomes THE WAY THINGS ARE. It doesn’t leave any room for improvement or differences and suddenly, anything else is irrelevant or even dangerous to the group.

I’m sure I’m going to sound like a PSA saying this but you need to have a diverse guild. It’s like my buddy said, often times, someone else having a different, especially a complementary, skill set, outlook or viewpoint is going to make you better, faster, stronger and that makes your daily fight a lot easier. Less grind, more win.

As we will explain in a future video, Morello and I look at the world very differently. So differently in fact that we can’t even understand how the other person gets through the day. That being said, we are each other’s greatest strength, not each other’s greatest weakness. I’ve helped him understand and learn so many things and so much more of my day-to-day life is made possible by him. Without him, there are so many things which would be totally impossible for me. These are just two of the many examples where he and I have grown individually and as a couple, thanks to our differences. Heck, he eats sushi now!

I’m sure you see this in your own life somewhere. Maybe you have a friend who has the same taste in games or TV so they heal you through their suggestions. Perhaps it’s your SO who always encourages you to keep practicing guitar rather than spacing out. Maybe it’s your hiking group… the possibilities are endless.

As a reminder, a great heal for both the giver and receiver is gratitude. So, if you have people in your life who help you like this, tell them so. Be direct. Say, “hey, thanks for always helping me with the dishes. It really means a lot!” or “I’m so glad I’ve got you guys on my side when I need you” Too often, we go without doing that and it means so much. Definitely gives a quest reward!!

As always, we love to hear what you think. Comment below and let us know! Who’s your greatest ally and why?

Oh and that boss art at the top? It’s from GENZOMAN on dA. Click over and check it out!

The Basics of Nerdly Super Communication Skillz

AKA A Glossary of Terms

The basic premise that must be understood (outside of a familiarity with World of Warcraft or other similar RPGs) is that you are a player in the game of life. As such, you have a certain amount of HP, MP, gear, spells, skills, level, etc. Real life is a set of quests, bosses, etc. that you must complete. Sure, you can take days off and choose to not log in, but do that for too long and you’ll probably deal with some pretty serious consequences, like homelessness. The wandering minsteral seems like a cool choice until it’s time to eat.

So, not only are you playing, but so is everyone else. Their dailies and bosses may not look the same as yours but they’ve got them too. People you’re close with, either by choice or force, can fight near you  and help you out, but they really can’t fight FOR you.

HIT POINTS

So, your quests, dailies and boss fights are your normal responsibilities. Maybe it’s school, a job, errands, basic self-care, etc. Doing these cause your HP to drop. This is not the only thing that can cause HP to drop, however. You can have debuffs, like being ill, DOTS like being depressed, or your gear or level might not be high enough for the stuff you’re doing. All of these can change how fast or slow your HP drops.

Just like in the games though, there’s a way for you to regen health. Maybe you work out and that gives you a slow heal over the day. Maybe you eat a particularly good meal and that gives you a boost. Maybe a chat with a close friend refills you. Only you can really know what’s going to refill your bar when you need it.

Remember those people around you that I mentioned before? They can also help you get some of that HP back. They can cast spells on you, like shields (for example, running an errand for you) or heals (like say, making you a meal or giving you a massage.)

MAGIC POINTS

MP exists in this as well. MP, as you probably know, allows you to cast spells on yourself and others. MP is really like how much mental energy you have to make things happen, both for yourself and those around you. Sometimes you can boost this the same way you can with your HP but it’s generally a lot harder. Your brain will check out far before your body will. Also, often things that might boost MP, like say caffeine, are temporary and may start doing physical damage, either immediately or as a DOT.

MP is great for boosting those around you too. If someone needs a heal (say, a hug or some time to chat), you can give from your MP to them to help them regen some HP.

THE INN

Each day, you start out at the inn. If you’re lucky, at the end of last night, you got there on your own two feet. If not, you respawn there. If you got there on your own power, there’s a good chance that you’ve regened some of your HP and MP, repaired your gear, maybe even gained a level or two. You were able to contain the battle to that day and you’re starting the new day with an advantage.

However, sometimes (or even generally for some people) you don’t make it to the inn under your own power at the end of the night. You run out of HP and you wipe, rezzing at the inn. You wake up the next morning and you know that you didn’t regen much if any HP and/or MP. Your gear might be broken.You certainly didn’t gain any levels. You may be screwed for today and, if you’re not careful, you could be screwed for a week, weeks, months or years if you don’t recognize how bad your situation is. But that’s for another post…

So, those are the basics. It’s not perfect, but we hope that as we fill this out more and more and work with it, it’ll be of use to some people. Let us know what you think!